The other day, I went to a food court with my wife and ate Stone-baked Bibimbap which is Korean mixed rice.
The shop was authentic to serve it with a stone bowl like below;
When I cleared our table, I brought the bowls one by one for my wife as well, because they are very heavy.
I said that “Thank you for the dish” to the shop staff when bringing it first.
On the way back to the table, I remembered some words which I learned at an NLP class as below;
So at the second time, I said
The staff had said “Thank you” administratively first. But at second, he looked at me and said it with a bright smile.
I thought at that time.
My NLP teacher mentioned many people got rare words to recognize. So people can fill their self-esteem with some words to reward for nothing special.
I will tell some words to praise, appreciate and reward people when getting these feelings.